The Ugly Lines

Like any woman yang dah bergelar ibu, antara isu/dilema/perkara yang paling tak disukai/naik menyampah is stretch marks. It has been bothering me more lately. Especially time puasa ni, donno why rasa sangat gatal, nak garu sampai luka pun ada! So each time I "belek" my ugh-so-lovely stretchies, I always like to buat hubby rasa bersalah (don't tell me u ols tak pernah buat). It's one of those all-your-fault statements yang saja nak mencabar jiwa, n saja nak cari pasal/gaduh.
Biasanya hubby akan senyum dan cakap "u shud b proud of it. itu yang buat you wanita sejati." Wah! Adakah saya nak jadi wanita sejati with lots of stretchies. Macam tak boleh percaya jek. Bukan the image/ideals of a wanita sejati ada ala ala rupa macam Miss Universe ka? Siapa taknak jadi wanita sejati yang berjaya, berkarier, beranak pinak (I am always proud of my status as mom of three kids at this age) and ada harta serba sedikit? And I also want to be flawless dari segi kecantikan. Iyolah, tak mungkin lah flawless, but kalau takde stretch marks? Yes please!!!!
So semalam, buat lagi perangai gediks melampau belek stretchies and buat statement gediks melampau yang sengaja menyakitkan jiwa hubby. But I like his answer this time "Setiap garis itu adalah pahala you..." Bergenang mata mak!! Terima kasih hubby... Doakanlah it works that way for me ya. Mwahs!

1 comments:

Mommy of Fiona et Thalia said...

Hahahaha.. pandai abg ajis menjawab "setiap garis ada pahala" :)

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